Naej.. you are right and I thought that myself when I posted. He's a good man, he said to G, she's a nice girl, I dont want to hurt her. He also since said though, he cant stand her, didnt love her and never would be able to.. so I DEFO dont think his feelings are the same for her as they were for me! Thank goodness.
Yes, I want us to be friends for a while and for him (and me) to have a gap between her and us reconciling. I'm not rushing to bed with him at all, if he does come back. I would want to wait and for it to be special.