Anger and hurt are aside regarding the past. I get angry and hurt AGAIN everytime I see the previous behaviour repeated. Which I hope you understand is different. No, I cant be the bigger person again as you call it. I AM the bigger person all along and responding to his actions or non actions is only to be expected and reasonable and human. I repeat, I am not Mother Teresa and dont believe in the theory of letting people hurt you all over again (turn the other cheek). I was "beaten" to death here. K