Hey K.. how is your weekend? What about Kats post though?...
Originally Posted By: kat727
I think what we are all trying to say on our own way is don't be angry when you talk to him, be pleasant and engaging. If you are having a hard time putting aside anger and hurt so is he. There is a lot of finger pointing going on and with no one willing to change, the cycle will continue.
Be the one to break it. Hugs.
kat PS, I am NOT trying to upset you, just maybe trying to get you to see the sun from another perspective.
What do you think? Could you set your anger and hurt aside more and just be light and chatty with him, be the bigger person? (as I have had to as you know.. in SPADES...and he still has an ow!!)
Or is it just all too late for that?? Time to draw a line in the sand? Its 2nd May today. Its Pluto square Venus and is said to be a very "black and white" weekend, no grey areas!