Hey K.. how is your weekend? What about Kats post though?...

Originally Posted By: kat727
I think what we are all trying to say on our own way is don't be angry when you talk to him, be pleasant and engaging. If you are having a hard time putting aside anger and hurt so is he. There is a lot of finger pointing going on and with no one willing to change, the cycle will continue.

Be the one to break it. Hugs.

kat
PS, I am NOT trying to upset you, just maybe trying to get you to see the sun from another perspective. \:\)

What do you think? Could you set your anger and hurt aside more and just be light and chatty with him, be the bigger person? (as I have had to as you know.. in SPADES...and he still has an ow!!)

Or is it just all too late for that?? Time to draw a line in the sand? Its 2nd May today. Its Pluto square Venus and is said to be a very "black and white" weekend, no grey areas!

xxx