Ali I dont know how I am gonna do that because my xh doesnt want to talk to me. I know if I tried to call him he wouldnt answer. He started doing this after ow moved in. Now they are engaged. She probably doesnt like him talking to me either. What should I do? Snodderly and Jack along with others says NOT to contact him in any way unless in an emergency. What you say does make sense. I have asked that same question, how in the world is he gonna notice a change in me if he dont ever see me? So what do you suggest?
