Hi Sunshine...
I'm not aware of your sitch, but I noticed when you posted before that your signature shows your H moved very quickly to D you and thats pretty shocking. Have you got a DB Coach? Its expensive and I am a penniless student, but I still bought two lots of sessions, 3 last year after he first started contacting me again and 3 more when I heard about the OW. I couldnt afford it, but it was the best $700 I ever spent, she was very helpful. So I would advise doing that ! You too silver.

Other than that, I say to you what I say to Silver.. they have to be able to see you in order to compare(if they will see you) and also.. at this stage, after D, what have you got to lose?? Jody the DB coach said that people get stuck in the LRT, dark, cos it makes them feel like they have some control, but at some point you have got to reach out a little (non-persueing/pressuring).


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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