I'd say wait until next week comes and see where you stand. Then if things are okish, you can buy her the Itouch Ipod. I maybe able to find one for you in a good price, hardly used...
My H and I said we were done, right vefore my birthday. That changed in 2 weeks. I didnt get a present. I thought it was udnerstandble but considering he said he loved me, I was disappointed.
Really, I would wait till you talk and then decide what to do. K