Its each persons individual choice. And I can't say what I will do once my D finally goes through. But people do reconcile after D. Granted the numbers are not in favor. But it does happen.

You might give it some time after and see what happens before you move on. Just trying to be encouraging. I don't know how long I will wait either. I don't even know how to meet women now or where to meet them or anything. But I understand how you feel.

I wouldn't rush right into another relationship though. Give yourself time to heal and grow. Figure out how to be happy first. And you never know, during that process, she may wake up and it may be better than ever. I wouldn't say write her off forever. You just don't know what the future holds.

Hang in there. You are doing better than I am.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...