Thanks everyone. I am so sad right now over the mess in my life. S7 doesn't want to visit his uncle. That is fine he can stay home with me.

H called a few times today. He sounded sad. Asked what I was doing. We chatted for awhile. I then said just a minute, and handed the phone to his dad. Not so sure that was the right thing to do, but this has to end some time. They talked for awhile.

H's mom wanted him to join us for dinner. He told his dad he would try, but then he told me NO. We took the kids to have spring photos done and then on to dinner. I wished my h had joined us.

H called later and asked if we could go to the Wolverine movie tomorrow. He knows his parents will be gone by the afternoon, so I guess he feels it's safe to come out and play.

H's parents are a handful. Our kids are their only grandchildren, so they do want to be with them, but I do have to set boundaries. When they arrived they said they could take D5 for 6 months to a year. I said no that isn't going to happen. I appreciate their generosity, but I do have to be firm. It was always my h setting the boundaries, now that is left to me, since they are not on speaking terms.

D5 seems fine with going. They treat her like a princess. I suggested they leave both kids and pick D5 on their way back through. D5 said No mommy I want to go. Well I guess that settles that. D7 said I want to stay with mommy.

Oh man, I just need to get through this month.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"