Jag, I too am very sorry for you and wish you only the best. Seems like a big old can of suck got opened this week and dumped on many of us.
Be strong for your kids, and make the most of every moment you have with them. I am in the same boat where my family has been ripped apart by WAW, and I have limited time with my kids, and it sucks so bad. Add to that, my dog died yesterday, talk about adding insult to a badly injured heart.