Newly separated...spouse left, 3rd thread

[PortlandDad]

That is a wonder affirmation. It says a lot about what I feel, too. BUT... resist the urge to share it with your WAS. That sort of posturing, of aggrandizement, of devotion is sure to be seen as pursuit and will do nothing to bring them closer to you. Say it in your heart and let it be your guiding prayer; let your outward appearance be that of a blissful Mensch, content with his life and ready to move on if that is what is required.