WAH says he wants to work on the M

[addie]

Hi Andabelle, So Confused!

I've also heard that all too often - it is always someone else's fault, always blaming someone else.

Andabelle - H stayed here for the 10 days. He was very loving and attentive. I was the one maintaining boundaries.
He does believe that I should move across the country for a third time, even after what happened the last two times. Both times I moved across the country with him, he cheated on me. The first A was very short lived and I'm not sure whether it was a PA but still when I confronted him with what I discovered, he told me he wanted a D. S was less than 2 at the time. H now expects me to move again and I've told him that he has to do what he must but I won't be moving.
I've been living with this lack of security long enough. Almost every year since we've been married, he's wanted us to move elsewhere. A couple of times he moved away on his own to work and then realized the job wasn't really what he wanted.

He keeps telling me he wants to be happy. I've told him it must come from within.