I also tried to apply the Love Dare concepts along with DR. I did complete all 40 days, but the ones I felt were in conflict with the 180/LRT technique I simply journalled about. For example, if H and I were working on our R, here's how I feel I've not trusted him or let him down, etc. But I'm saving my book for a time when H is receptive to the LR challenge. Right now is not that time for me, and it may not be for you either. My two cents.