So I am in limbo land. Ex would go out again and is friendly, but it's too painful to be around her and see that she does not care in the way I do.
I think I really have to "try" to detach and only respond to her contact. I have tried this in the past but don't seem to have the strength to pull it off. She sucks me back in every time I try.
Hi,
I am also a Tom btw..
I think that this says it all for the moment ? What do you think ?
Detachment is a key here. I have caught myself up on your sitch and I was wondering what you are doing for YOU ? The constant contact with having kids is something that is really hard to handle sometimes. I have 3 like that.
Hang in there.. You seem like you are a really good guy.
