Fallgirl, you're fight in that the Love Dare and the LRT are quite a dichotomy. I am truly pulling back from my husband in that I no longer seek any physical attention such as hugs, etc..
I also insisted he move in the basement. I don't call him or text him, I wait for him to contact me. However, I make coffee every AM for myself so I take him a cup. And if I'm going to make dinner for the kids anyway, I'll make sure it's something he likes. I try not to be too obvious. And I've got to tell you, since I've read DR and pulled back, I am pretty damn happy! I know that God forbid---should things fall through, I'll be OKAY> And I didn't know that a month ago. Have fun with that lengerie. I miss sex and wish my hiusband would get his [censored] together!!! \:\)


Me 39
H 42
M 11, T 12
S 10,6
D 3
EA 2007
separated in same home since 3/10/09