This is going to take a lot more time. Stop trying to make something happen, and just step back, let her go, give her the freedom she needs, and take this time to work on you.
That's easy to say, but incredibly hard to do! Why is it so hard to just 'allow' things to happen instead of trying to 'force' things to happen? I find myself wanting to call her, or write her a letter, or text or E-mail...WHY? I know that words, no matter how carefully crafted, have NO EFFECT at all on her right now!
Please tell me about 'going dark' and 'dropping the rope'? Not saying I'm gonna do either of these...just want to know more about these strategies.
I HAVE TO LEAVE HER ALONE!
WHY DO WE WANT TO KEEP ON TRYING TO TALK TO THEM? WE KNOW THAT IT WILL NOT MAKE THINGS BETTER RIGHT NOW!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
