Thanks for your nice post. Yes, I quite enjoy my days these days. However, I am still surprised that my XH is so often on my mind!
I took notice of your suggestion and have actually started to write a few notes each time I meet somebody - LOL! I also keep all the e-mail correspondence and so I might one day do what you are suggesting. However, just recently there was a book like it published but the lady saw 100 guys and not one of them was her dream man. So I still have ways to go - LOL!
As I mentioned before, I was a bit disappointed in not getting to know some people of my level, but I heard from other friends that some of the women were looking for 2-4 years. But in the end they did meet somebody really nice.
I just received another guy's reply to my e-mail who is my age. So next week I will hopefully be able to write something about him.