1) He's gonna be pissed. It'll give him more reasons to hate me and be mean. 2) I don't believe he will give me any CS or debt willingly, so I somehow don't feel like I have much of a choice.
Help. I need some input.
Honey, YOUR CHILD needs you to do this. You can not think about his anger right now. Come on, I know you have a little bit of Mama Bear in you some where. How dare anyone, least of all daddy, neglect or deprive the little one of what she needs.
Just stay calm, speak softly, keep it business-like. You can always go home & break something to relieve the stress.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.