Song - Unfortunately, that is still pursuing and pressure. You need to just let go and move on with your life and figure out your needs and wants. Lots of people have asked that. What are the answers? Besides your old life and your W that is.

Can't you see that you already have your answer where she stands?
Dont believe anything they say remember. Only actions. What are her actions? Not filing. Not telling the kids.

The message is clear to me. What about you?

Patience. Stay the course. She is confused and doesnt know what she wants. You gave her space now give her the time she is asking for.

God Speed. B