Oh Glam I am thankful you see my concern for you motivated my directness. You have been so strong and carried on dispite your H and his antics for so long now. You are a remarkable and resourceful woman and I have no doubt that you can and will find the right course of action for you and your family. Your H can if he ever truly wants to, catch you up. I am glad you have the week end for you,it was good of your inlaws to do this for you. It shows what high regard they hold you in and I am sure they are embarrassed by their sons behaviour if not a little confused. Try to get some rest and me time.