I hear you TL, makes no sense. I said to my h about 3 years ago that he had a screw loose in his brain. Oh he was offended and has used it against me every opportunity he gets, but that is how I feel I think these mlcer's have a loose screw and can't seem to see the bigger picture.
My h would say, do I look happy, I am not happy being away from my family, but then does nothing to close that gap. Makes no sense what so ever.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"