Incidentally futureunknown...she told me last night that she dislikes the 'new me' even more than she disliked the 'old me'! What's your take on that?
I call bs. More likely she dislikes it because she still thinks/is afraid that it is temporary.
I don't know...but I'd give anything if you were right! I feel pretty down right now...you know how it is...right after something really bad happens that rips your heart out? Your anxious, scared, sad, etc.
Why do I want more time to pass without her filing for a divorce?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.