Hi naej,

Thank you for your post. I have not sorted out the problem with my neighbour yet, but I also consulted a laywer and he told me what to say to the neighbour and what to do.

I had a nice time and enjoyed the play last week-end. Unfortunately, there were no single men to sit next to but I sat opposite a nice lady and you would not believe it, she also lives on the other side of the town I live in!

I answered yet another single's ad on the internet and received a nice e-mail from a guy who sent me his photograph. He is about my age and is really good looking and tall, but he must be more of a biker which is not my type of person at all. But when I saw his picture I had to laugh out loud – he even has a tattoo! – I am more the conservative type and just couldn't imagine going out with somebody like him.

Last night I went to a modern ballet with my sister which was absolutely trash. Afterwards we went for a drink and she asked me if I had heard from XH. I said no, and went I got home I received a businesslike e-mail from him. He was asking about the sale of the property since nothing has happened anymore and asked me to find out about it.

Today I went hiking with my GF and am absolutely tired.

The other day it was raining for the first time in weeks and I was so depressed. I sometimes get these days when I just cannot understand that XH threw everything we had away for his life he has now. What I also cannot understand is that about 10 years ago he drove to a friend to talk sense into him because he wanted to divorce his wife. And then he goes and does exactly the same thing! It is just beyond me how one person can change so much in such a short time.

I wish everybody a lovely week-end.