I understand, and I would never say anything disparaging about W, but the kids will know it is her decision and not my decision. They already know it was her decision to move out and get an apartment, and she is the one that needs time to determine whether we all live together as a family or not.
My question still remains, should I send her this email as a last attempt, or is it not a good idea? Would you word it differently?I'd appreciate any insight - Thanks.
W,
Before you take any steps toward a permanent solution to what may be a temporary problem, I would ask that you consider participating in one or both of these workshops with me.
I really believe that we owe it to each other, and to our kids, to try and see if we can work through our issues, as a divorce will have life long impact and repercussions on all of our lives. At the very least, we would know that we exhausted every opportunity to make it work, and could move forward without doubt of whether we should have tried something to help.
I would appreciate a response, even if only to let me know that you received this email.
