The roller coaster continues. So last night she starts in about the separation. Says she asked me to leave 3 months ago and this is dragging on. I told her it's going to take as long as it takes. She threatens to file for a D instead of going the agreement route. I tell her to do what she has to do.
She says me being in the house is stressing her and she's getting near the end of her rope. I told her there isn't anything I'm doing to cause her stress. She said it's what happened in the past and that she doesn't want to live with me...blah, blah, blah. You basically know the rest - all script.
This morning she tells me she is going to drop the kids off tomorrow morning and then go out. She's going to come back to watch them while I have IC and then she's going to go out and not come home until Sun around noon for my kids swimming lessons. I tell her fine, do what you want. I left and went to work.
After I got off work she calls me, chatting like nothing happened, nice as pie, tells me my S lost another tooth, chats with me about her work, asks me if I heard from my L, etc...
Through it all I sit there waving....as she goes off in the distance in her roller coaster.
She's staying at her mom's tonight with the kids. I'm going out to meet a bunch of people I found on meetup.com and gonna build myself a social network. Good stuff for me. GAL'ing - it's just what I need right now.
I made an appointment to see my L on Monday to discuss if I should go through with the forensic analysis or just make her file for D. Hopefully that will work out ok.
She thinks she has a slam dunk - I don't think so. The more overconfident she is, the better it will be for me so I hope it stays that way. Anyway, that's my update.
Ken
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
