Yesterday afternoon lifted my spirits a little more. A couple of friends and I took a plane up and went for a quick flight along the coast. It was a very nice time (Even though my buddy unknowingly flew directly over my W's apartment!). We landed and went for a good 2 hour workout.

I have been feeling much better today. Stronger in the sense that I will get through this just fine, regardless of what direction the marriage goes.

I went to the bank today and opened up new checking and savings accounts in just my name. I was origially going to just have her removed, but that has turned into more of a hassle than it was worth. I do feel better about taking the initiative and doing that for myself.

I plan to take the advice above and begin packing up the remainder of her things this weekend. It will probably be a little hard at first, but I think the benefits will outweigh it. We still have had no contact in just over 2 weeks now.


M 30
WAW 29
T 15
M 5
ILYBNILWY 3/8/09
Separated 3/14/09

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