Funny, I was thinking last night...

What are the 180's I've done since November?

-- Stopped pursuing him non-stop
-- Stopped calling/txt'ing him non-stop (Now, only 1x/day if he's traveling
-- Polished my appearance
-- Upbeat, mood
-- Less arguing w/D17 in his presence (he thought this was a stressor)
-- Becoming financially responsible
-- Stopped emotional explosions (1x only - 1 month ago - used to be almost weekly)
-- Try and really listen to him (he said I didn't listen a lot... until he got mad and acted like an as$hole.)

OK, what the hell more does he want?

LOL


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.