-- Stopped pursuing him non-stop -- Stopped calling/txt'ing him non-stop (Now, only 1x/day if he's traveling -- Polished my appearance -- Upbeat, mood -- Less arguing w/D17 in his presence (he thought this was a stressor) -- Becoming financially responsible -- Stopped emotional explosions (1x only - 1 month ago - used to be almost weekly) -- Try and really listen to him (he said I didn't listen a lot... until he got mad and acted like an as$hole.)
OK, what the hell more does he want?
LOL
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.