Flirt with him? FLIRT? You are kidding right? You must be. We havent talked all week. And the last time we talked he was sreaming I am the meanest person he has ever known, that he should know people (I) dont change, that he is fed up with playing my fool?
Flirt with that. No, I am not flirting with him. I am not Mother Teresa nor so desperate to "keep him".
Yes fb2, I made a big effort explaning to him how insecure that makes me feel. I said if she is just a friend, arrange to go out together. He said that wasnt a good idea. As to talking to her he said it's my problem, sucks to be me... NO compromise whatsoever. No alternative whatsoever.
I dont know how he feels about me. He has repeatedly ignored my request to tell me how he feels and what he waats from me. All I ever got was "I want peace". I guess by that he means to be left alone since anything I say about us he disregards as nagging (nugging?). He said my anger is mine to deal with. No compassion towards the woman he says he loves.
No, I cant force him to change. He said he wanted to when he said he wants back. He said he knew where he went wrong. He said he would do all necessary efforts to behave differently.
I can lead him all I can but if he feels it's too much he bails out. Standard procedure with him.
Yes, I've told him many times I feel rejected and hurt and disappointed in BOTH of us. usually I got "what the h$ll do you want? I see you as much as my work permits me to"
I am afraid. Definitely. The future maybe? Making the wrong choice? Being alone for the rest of my life? Raising my kids? Trying to figure that one out. K
