Hey girls.. yes, patience! I definetly have that, noone could accuse me of not having it now who knows me !! Question is, is he worth it???? Ahh.. I think so, yes, but time will tell hey!
So.. hi Cyrena! Funny you should say that about the 18 months, I didnt know that was an average, just that intuitively I felt it would take that long to 'mend' things. I did post here about this Venus-Pluto pattern he is in (classic cause of MLC/A type sitches) and said that rumbles for him until early 2011.. plus, although he said he could see us living back home in our house again (yay!!! I love that house, beautiful Victorian red brick, bare floorboards, open fires!) but I wanted to stay in Cornwall a bit longer, certainly this summer and then maybe another year to make the most of it and with a vague plan to move back home the following winter, so late 2010. I reckon we will be back on track by then. So.. yep, I am prepared for it to take time! We can live here and enjoy the seaside and coastal paths and bike trails and hopefully live together again.
I will have to check out Snodderleys posts then (got a link to them?). But.. I feel like we will be ok, eventually, but then, that always was my belief, although, he hasnt SAID he wants back yet.
He texted me earlier, to say he arrived in our hometown safe and some stuff about the ipod he lent me and then signed his text message with our little special name again....'me'. YAY!