I think in my sitch the main reason I don't like calling my H is that I need to set boundaries. Let him know that his behavior is not acceptable. My H is happy when I do call and he calls me at times but I know its all just to continue this whole love triangle thing and to keep me hooked. But I'm hooked...... awwwwwwww. \:\) I also know that I need to have him miss me and want to be with me that all means necessary. I know its a process so I will try to remember that and that it takes time.