One thing that struck me was her wicked reaction to you not "caring" about what she should bring over for dinner. This drives me and most other women NUTS. In trying to be amiable and easy and pleasing (with the best of intentions, I'm sure), you're not giving any direction and leadership, you're not showing that you have any opinion with regard to what YOU want (therefore not showing a lack of backbone and substance), and you're leaving the work up to her to figure it all out.
A girl doesn't want to have to think of everything and be burdened with all of the decision making, even on a small level. When you ask a woman out, don't ask her what she'd like to do or where she'd like to go. Figure something out and take her there. Lead and be her man.
I hope this makes sense and sheds some light on what seems to be a very b*tchy response. It probably struck a nerve with her, and she probably doesn't even know why.
Glover stated something about this on the NMMNG website. He explains it beautifully.
Hope that is somewhat helpful. It may seem trivial, but it is a symbol of a much deeper issue of why she might have trouble seeing you as her man.
