I gotta suspect that Schnarch is having some effect. He got his copy about a week ago. The eye contact stuff was new and unexpected - classic Schnarch.
Also, he never brought home wine on a random night before. We usually drink on weekends only. He came in, kissed me, immediately opened it and poured two glasses without offering, handed me one and clinked his glass against mine. Don't know where the heck that came from, but it was unexpected and fun.
So, Stillhope and Cinco and other guys who are looking for tips... Try something random and unexpected. Something you've never done before. FUN and refreshing -- not the same old husband. Keep pushing your situations out of the comfort zone!
Thanks to everyone who has helped me and my H get to this stage. I am over the moon!