It's a Marathon Not a Sprint

[sandycay]

This shouldn't be taking a toll on Gym woman... she knew you were married when she entered in a relationship with you. What choice do you have at speeding up the process... NONE.

As far as D17... I think you should respect her wishes until you are divorced. That's just my opinion but if you don't have her that much it shouldn't be a problem.

Look from a daughter of a Divorced parent... I valued and cherished the time with my dad. Plus you have been gone for a while to Iraq and before that dealing with a failing marriage. She needs you and you really don't have a lot of this type of time left with her as she will be moving on in her life soon. Take this time and give it to her...no complications and frankly if Gym woman doens't get that.. she's not worth a grain of salt.

It's not a contest... at this point your daughter should win. Maybe I feel this because been there and done that but my dad cherished his time with me and didn't need to involve me in his dating life.
He kept that seperate until he knew he was going to marry this woman.

PS Your wife sure takes the cake and it's no wonder your tired of the BS.