Naej.. no I dont work, I have been at college full-time since October, why do you ask?

Kalni - yes I think you are right! I dont think he was ready to hear it before (it wouldnt have mattered if I had said it or not) but we are nearing the end now, so yes, I will say it I think if I get chance. Wow though, I DID say May didnt I!! I really should start charging ;\)

MsM...Yes I wonder those things too, he is not a coper, so what would happen in the future?? Its too hypothetical though, I cant go there either. I think he has a tonne of guilt, its for him to deal with, but also, from my own EA, I know I needed eventually to get it out, talk it through and have him understand and no longer have doubts and not to trust me. So, I am expecting that to hit sometime!

Kat.. spot on! Me and my ex have our Sun and Moon exact conjunct in Leo.. his Dad died and he then got depressed, I was getting sick and our beloved cat was dying too and he couldnt cope ! At the time, I was having Saturn transiting direct my Moon and he was therefore having Saturn over his Sun (in 2007) and that traditionally causes depression and yes.. it was a very HARD Saturnian time for us and he ran. I still dont think Helen was the reason, she was just a symptom. Its annoying though, as being with her created a tonne more problems, guilt and things we have to now work through, so I wish he hadnt been so weak.

I always said he was an MLC poster boy, a texbook case. So Cher emailed me today and yes, seems he is now in one of the latter stages of MLC (5?), the one where they face the reality of all the hurt they have caused.. he told G last night, he feels so guilty towards me, for how he has treated me!

Well, hallelulah. So just that and then stage 6 to go I reckon and we'll be done!