I`ve just realised Jeff that, three weeks on in LRT maybe I shouldn`t be looking at him for signs of change but looking at me. Yes,I`m doing just fine. I`ve been really down in the past over the M and I know everyone on this board get to that point, but I`m really just thrilled to be so well, so happy, so healthy, and to have learnt so much through all of this.
And LRT has been HUGELY helpful in that regard.
So maybe I`m looking in the wrong place for change. In the past three weeks I`ve indulged in lots of my fav relaxing pursuits, I`ve a clearer view of my priorities, I`m calmer, I`m detached from H`s moods, I`m a better Mum to my children.
I`ve read through some of your current thread, Jeff, and can see that you`re a lot further down the road than I am. I know the result I want(reconciliation) may not be the one I get but I`m hopeful that the result will be the one I NEED. And that DBing at the very least will lead me to a happier place for all the family.Reading your thread shows the light at the end of the tunnel.
