naej....no one should outwardly tell someone "you need to get a divorce".

On the other hand, at times, it helps when someone stands up and shouts "the emperor has no clothes."

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;