Andabelle,
That is the perfect description of what my h is trying to do!! He is his problem, and wherever he goes there he is. LOL

If you listen to him though, of course, it is always outside forces that are his problem. Things always "happen to him".

"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

me 33, s 9, d 4