some advice from someone who has been in your situation, and has been following you thread.
the ball is not in her court. she just gave you the ball. now show her you dont mind playing with yourself, or better yet that this game rots and youre going to play a different one.
"She says it's over, we have no future together, she's not coming back, she wants nothing to do with me, and she hates me for treating her the way I did."
dont fret too much over it. she gave up her loss. its time to show her actually what she lost by saying this too your. it is the only way to save yourself and possibly your marriage.
you might actually find it funny when she realizes the impact of those words on her when you are capable of standing on your own 2 feet and might not even want her back.
SteveMcQueen "So I'll meet you at the bottom if there really is one They always told me when you hit it you'll know it But I've been falling so long it's like gravity's gone and I'm just floating"
