I went to the courthouse and they told me that I need to call CSS in order to get my child support. This means that the DA will be involved, the state will take care of getting it from him and he will be garnished wherever he goes. 1) He's gonna be pissed. It'll give him more reasons to hate me and be mean. 2) I don't believe he will give me any CS or debt willingly, so I somehow don't feel like I have much of a choice.
For those of you who know me...all of you. I still snoop occassionally and I found out that his unemployment claim has been approved. This means that he will be receiving him UI checks for the back pay from December until now. A large portion of that money belongs to me...will he give it to me? No. Will he even tell me that he is getting UI? No. So, I am torn. I know that going through CSS is going to make our R worse, but I don't feel like I have much of a choice. I have been putting off calling them ....why? I think I have been waiting to see if he will do it willingly or give me any sign of working with me. And, he hasn't as a matter of fact, he has been pretty damn mean. So, why should I care if it hurts him financially? He's been hurting me financially since he left a year and a half ago. He doesn't care about me, so should I even give a rat's a$$ about him and OW's life?
Help. I need some input.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
