I am disgusted by him too. I sent him a link to an article talking about why it was more dangerous to have them front facing and to keep them rear facing as long as possible even if their legs are hitting the seat. In a crash, forward facing infants sustain neck injuries, where rear facing infants have a greater area to spread out the impact. It was all in there. I sent the link with the note:

H,
This is about her safety. I’m not trying to tell you that you are doing something wrong. I just want her to be as safe as possible. I know you do, too. So, just read it and then decide. I won’t discuss this with you again. You’re her parent, too. Do what’s best for her. It’s not a battle between you and I.



Take care

- A

I hope that sounded okay. I was trying to not be overbearing and "Mothering". I got the message across, I think. But, knowing my H...he probably didn't even read it and just deleted it.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him