Yeah, just come here to speak about everything, the only people I told were my parents, because I knew they would not say anything to anybody, to this day the only people that know is my lawyer, her friend, and my parents, noone in this town even knew we were in trouble. It is much easier like this because noone takes a side, and they will.
Good job on the call, as far as confusion on the 180's, they are suggestions of being different to improve yourself, women like assertive strong men, so a 180 to a weak and one seeking approval would not be a good 180. Do you get what I am saying, also a 180 for the sake of being a 180 is not a good thing, see what works and stick with it, and drop the 180's that do not.