I hope you validated and not blame her for thinking that, it is a shame that this had to happen for me to finally get it. Whatever happens, thank you for doing this to me because I am a better man now than I was, good bye.

Anything like this? or was it a pleading, please don't do this type of call?
It is time for you to act as if she is not coming back, because she may not, but she definitely will not come back if she does not see changes in you.

Burt