In regards to new things to do to improve M. My DB coach said if everything is going well, try sending funny little e-mails or texts and see if you get any reactions.
Eg. a funny story about WeeMan. Anything that would make her laugh or she might find endearing. Then wait. Don't do it too often. Just once in a while. See if you get any reaction, an e-mail back or a comment a few days laTer, anything. Keep your eyes and ears open.
Now, I don't know what the followup would be since I have not gotten past this stage yet but I think DB coach wants to just test the waters to see if our spouses are amenable to a pleasant interaction or some sort of light emotional bond ( my guess). Good luck!
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
