I very much hope it continues for you Lucky. All I can offer is keep communicating.

I'm pretty jealous. My relationship has improved a lot emotionally the last few months but our physical relationship is still the way it has been the last couple years. Once, maybe twice a month and just standard basic missionary only.

This communication about sex thing is one of the areas I feel confused about. I read here about how you ladies try to communicate your wants and needs and many times that helps. It seems the opposite for me and I think maybe for a good portion of men. Ask / talk about sex with your wife and it is usually a bad thing - it is looked at as complaining, begging, whining, bashing, etc....