If you have always given her a card from yourself, then go ahead and do it. If not, definately don't do that, its pursuing.
My h has always given me a card, and if he didn't I would be a little upset about it. Portland Dad does have a point, but I think it is a nice gesture to acknowledge you wife and her being the mother of your children.
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