Learning to Detach

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K
I think your H just wants to make things really clear
like how he feels today
so no matter how close you get and how positive the connections are, he is done
in their MLC mind they beleive they are done
they do not see any possible way to work it out and I think even if they do, they wont admit it

I connected with my XH for many visits
he was visiting 4x a week when he left and stayed for many hours each time
sometimes I would leave sometimes stay
I tried to emotionally connect with him and we experienced mnay positive conversations
where he opened up partially
I think we were close at times and got along better than while M
IN my case, it didtn work to turn him around..i finally gave up trying to connect

Your H is different than mine
He is more open
and seems someway hopeful
but
It is still going to take the time it takes for a mler to sort thru th crises
this crises is not abbout the M
But about their isnner issues from childhood so ive read
peace