Well......So last night W told me there is no way to fix the M she will never get over the past and wants a D. Of course she wants to work it out between us and not L so it's not hard.

I probably did a few wrong things when she told me: I asked her to go to MC again, to just try to date, ect.

She said we couldn't date wo/MC and didn't want to go to MC because it would be too hard emotionally. I of course (stupidly)said you think D will be easy emotionally?

I do believe in DB because I know I'll be ok but this really SUCKS!!!!

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."