I am so surprised at all the similarities in a lot of the stories that I am reading in the forums, in comparison with my own sitch.
I feel like I am reading about myself when I read your story above, although I don't currently have the OM aspect to deal with, so I feel for you even more
One thing that strikes me, is all the language, actions and issues are very well described in the books and on this iste, including the specific words that our W use on us. I think we need to take some support for ourselves in that fact, and that the solutions they offer may offer some hope to us.
Meaning we need to do the action steps, Act as if, GAL, etc. I am struggling with this part of it, and slipped up again last night, but will get up, dust off and try again.
Keep up the hard work Heartbroken20, your inspirational to me in knowing how hard you have worked so far...
Have
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
