J,

I will and thank you. If you look at a few texts back you will see I had an HUGE argument with my wife last night. Just as I thought were might have been making tiny progress...bang back to square one. also sandi's post has made me re-think whether my nicely nicely approach with my 180's are going to do the trick. I have no idea which way to go at the moment. forget my wife and set boundaries, or do the 180's.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years