I pay the mortgage and the bills because we have a fixed mortgage at the moment which we cannot redeem on until November when she buys me out. We also have joint childrens tax credit, though because they overpayed us by £5,300 a few years ago they now want it back. We cannot pay that at the moment therefore she cannot claim a single mothere allowance. Its a mess basically.
She has texted me this morning to ask what time I am to pick up the children tonight and ask me if I want her to give them tea. I said seeing as I am not picking them up until 6.00pm please could you. She then rang me and said she would give them a sandwich at 4.00pm as they are hungry and then I give them a meal later on. I said well if this is the case why ask me? I said I would give them tea but again I do not know if she is testing me to see if I would sucumb or whether she just wanted to call.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/01/0910:21 AM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
