Thanks Kev,

I just seem to have lost focus and direction. My foolhardy attempt at trying to 'man up' over the shopping was ill-conceived, not thought out properly and I knew she would not stand for it. The fact the children were there listening to our telephone conversation made me lose my train of thought as I did not want them to hear us arguing. In hindsight I should not have even mentioned the shopping and should have waited until she wanted me to do something for her then I would have set a boundary if it was warranted. How can I improve my relationship with my wife if there is always going to be confrontation?

I just do not know what to do Kev. Why is she trying to hurt me when she is getting and is doing everything she wants?


Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/01/09 09:27 AM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years